A Cautionary Tale

This is not a tragedy. This is a warning.

Because some endings don’t come with sirens.
Some stories die in whispers.

No betrayal. No explosion. No last straw.
Just quiet surrender.
One compromise at a time.
One silence too many.
One dream deferred until it stopped asking to be remembered.

It never happens overnight.
It’s a series of negotiations.
A thousand small surrenders.

You don’t fall all at once.
You settle.
You acclimate to the darkness.
You convince yourself the numbness is peace.

You stop asking for more
because asking is exhausting,
and disappointment starts to feel like failure
you caused.

You trade clarity for comfort.
Fire for familiarity.
You tell yourself:
This is fine.
This is manageable.
This is what growth looks like.

But it’s not fine.
It’s familiar.
And familiarity is not freedom.
The danger isn’t in the fall.
It’s in the settling.
It’s in the way your body adjusts to being unfulfilled,
how your voice forgets its sharpness,
how your mind stops imagining anything better.

We think rock bottom is a moment.
But sometimes, it’s a season.
Sometimes it’s a home you start decorating.

You stayed too long.
Called survival “stability.”
Called fatigue “normal.”
Called resignation “maturity.”

You buried parts of yourself
so deep, you forgot where to dig.
And now you live in the space between
what you wanted and what you settled for.

So no, this is not a tragedy.
No one dies.
Nothing explodes.

But something sacred is lost.

So, take this as a caution.
Don’t get too comfortable in a life that doesn’t feel like your own.
Don’t confuse the absence of pain with the presence of joy.
Don’t call it peace if you had to disappear to find it.

Because one day, you wake up
and realize you’re not trapped in someone else’s cage, you built it.
Brick by brick.
Rationalized every layer.
And by the time you want out,
you’re not even sure who’s left to escape.

So fight.
Even when it’s easier not to.
Even when no one’s watching.
Especially when no one’s watching.

This is not a tragedy.
It’s a warning.

Don’t make yourself at home in the dark.
You weren’t meant to live there.


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